So she gave birth to the Miracle child Part-2
Friday, August 28, 2009 Posted by Sam Sall
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Now as we knew in Part -1 from the story that Fatima got her wish and gad a baby girl . But that baby was sick initially and had to be admitted to the intensive care unit, and also the doctors notice that she is different.
3 days later the genetic testing came and it showed that Mariam is having down syndrome. She knew what is down syndrome but she was OK WITH THAT at the time she was feeling as if her heart will burst from the love she has for this baby.
Fatima was discharged from the hospital on that day the only thing that bothered her is that she came back home without her little girl and it was nothing as she imagined it would be.
10 days later Mariam was discharged home and the happy parents threw a big party for her ( Sabie ) THAT TRADITIONALLY thrown by the parents in Saudi Arabia when their new born baby is 7 Day old.
Fatima took care of her girl she taught her how to draw, she enrolled her in a different social activities to meet with children like her. Mariam was adorable and kind , her teachers loved her and her classmate liked her. Fatima was very busy with her daughter and her sons felt very left out with the times she was always telling them to be kind to Mariam as she is special. Poor little boys they just felt that their mommy not around as before because they are not special enough. Awadh was growing a part from his wife as Fatima did not give him any much rule in Mariam life except for driving them around to their destination. Fatima was so swamped in making Mariam lead a more normal life that she did not notice that she lost watching over the rest of the family .
Life continued and the family kept on struggling to stay as a unit ,especially with the frequent fights between the parents .
At one day Fatima got this call telling her that her husband found dead in a car crash. FATIMA was devastated and she started to get sick day by day, and after the 3 days of the father death Fatima became bedridden and the boys had to learn how to take care of themselves but Mariam who was 14 years old at the time she was the one who took care of her mom ,she fed her and cleaned her FOR those DAYS . After that one of FATIMA BROTHER CAME INTO THE PICTURE. He found out that his sister is not responding and unconscious, he called the red crescent and they took her to the hospital. THERE Fatima was found to have a ruptured cerebral aneurysm ,aka hemorrhagic stroke . she was taken to OPERATING ROOM and they clipped that bleeding artery but it was too late the damage was already done and precious Fatima NOW IN VEGETATIVE STATE IN THE ICU.
THE BROTHER TOOK THE CHILDREN to his home . they just could not understand what was happening to them, they lost their parent in few days so suddenly and now they have to live in a new home. Mariam was irritable and became isolated from the rest of the family and some time was hard to deal with. Her siblings was in their teens were very quiet and with a zombie look on their face.
1 month later the hospital called Fatima brother to take her home. He came and took her to his home. He was busy in his life and his wife could not bear take caring of a sick person. BUT SOMETHING HAPPENED HERE, Mariam emerged into a new rule ,she stayed next to her mother and taught herself to meet her mother needs.
FATIMA who was very active and strong totally independent ,who could think that this is what the future was holding for her to be in vegetative state.
Time passed by, it is already 4 years .FATIMA WAS PUT INTO a facility that take care of such patients she has been there since 3 years, her brother had to make that decision as he felt she need more and better medical care. Mariam was with her she fought to be there. FATIMA oldest son is working in the military now and got married since 1 year, sadly at his wedding he only could imagine how it would feel to have his MOM AROUND in his wedding and he only mother would act in such a situation but nothing more. He paid her a visit with his bride regularly but each time he visits her it becomes more unbearable untill he stopped visiting her .
THE MIDDLE SON has finished collage and he became an English teacher just like his mom and now planning to marry his friend sister. As for the youngest boy he is getting ready to study international law abroad. Her kids tried their best to reach out to life and always remembered what their mother taught them to be successful.
For Mariam her MOM was her world , she is like the perfect medical record for her .She has been with her in every time I saw her mother admitted into the hospital . SHE SENSE if her mother is going to be sick and the doctors always take what Mariam says or sense seriously because she has proven her self before as a true detector for her mother.
Now Mariam is 18 years old ,she knows what to do if her mother deteriorated ,she is better that any care taker I've ever meat. Fatima looking good .with beautiful face and clear skin ,she evn foes not have any bed sore despite she have been bed bound for 8 years. This is how Mariam is good in keeping her Mom at her best.
TODAY WHEN i come to see Fatima i found Mariam putting her MOTHER arms around her sleeping .
Destiny is funny ,who KNEW what Mariam the girl with down syndrome is capable too, THE ADORABLE helpful , the perfect child. after all Fatima was right to wish for her and to open her capabilities to the world.
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3 days later the genetic testing came and it showed that Mariam is having down syndrome. She knew what is down syndrome but she was OK WITH THAT at the time she was feeling as if her heart will burst from the love she has for this baby.
Fatima was discharged from the hospital on that day the only thing that bothered her is that she came back home without her little girl and it was nothing as she imagined it would be.
10 days later Mariam was discharged home and the happy parents threw a big party for her ( Sabie ) THAT TRADITIONALLY thrown by the parents in Saudi Arabia when their new born baby is 7 Day old.
Fatima took care of her girl she taught her how to draw, she enrolled her in a different social activities to meet with children like her. Mariam was adorable and kind , her teachers loved her and her classmate liked her. Fatima was very busy with her daughter and her sons felt very left out with the times she was always telling them to be kind to Mariam as she is special. Poor little boys they just felt that their mommy not around as before because they are not special enough. Awadh was growing a part from his wife as Fatima did not give him any much rule in Mariam life except for driving them around to their destination. Fatima was so swamped in making Mariam lead a more normal life that she did not notice that she lost watching over the rest of the family .
Life continued and the family kept on struggling to stay as a unit ,especially with the frequent fights between the parents .
At one day Fatima got this call telling her that her husband found dead in a car crash. FATIMA was devastated and she started to get sick day by day, and after the 3 days of the father death Fatima became bedridden and the boys had to learn how to take care of themselves but Mariam who was 14 years old at the time she was the one who took care of her mom ,she fed her and cleaned her FOR those DAYS . After that one of FATIMA BROTHER CAME INTO THE PICTURE. He found out that his sister is not responding and unconscious, he called the red crescent and they took her to the hospital. THERE Fatima was found to have a ruptured cerebral aneurysm ,aka hemorrhagic stroke . she was taken to OPERATING ROOM and they clipped that bleeding artery but it was too late the damage was already done and precious Fatima NOW IN VEGETATIVE STATE IN THE ICU.
THE BROTHER TOOK THE CHILDREN to his home . they just could not understand what was happening to them, they lost their parent in few days so suddenly and now they have to live in a new home. Mariam was irritable and became isolated from the rest of the family and some time was hard to deal with. Her siblings was in their teens were very quiet and with a zombie look on their face.
1 month later the hospital called Fatima brother to take her home. He came and took her to his home. He was busy in his life and his wife could not bear take caring of a sick person. BUT SOMETHING HAPPENED HERE, Mariam emerged into a new rule ,she stayed next to her mother and taught herself to meet her mother needs.
FATIMA who was very active and strong totally independent ,who could think that this is what the future was holding for her to be in vegetative state.
Time passed by, it is already 4 years .FATIMA WAS PUT INTO a facility that take care of such patients she has been there since 3 years, her brother had to make that decision as he felt she need more and better medical care. Mariam was with her she fought to be there. FATIMA oldest son is working in the military now and got married since 1 year, sadly at his wedding he only could imagine how it would feel to have his MOM AROUND in his wedding and he only mother would act in such a situation but nothing more. He paid her a visit with his bride regularly but each time he visits her it becomes more unbearable untill he stopped visiting her .
THE MIDDLE SON has finished collage and he became an English teacher just like his mom and now planning to marry his friend sister. As for the youngest boy he is getting ready to study international law abroad. Her kids tried their best to reach out to life and always remembered what their mother taught them to be successful.
For Mariam her MOM was her world , she is like the perfect medical record for her .She has been with her in every time I saw her mother admitted into the hospital . SHE SENSE if her mother is going to be sick and the doctors always take what Mariam says or sense seriously because she has proven her self before as a true detector for her mother.
Now Mariam is 18 years old ,she knows what to do if her mother deteriorated ,she is better that any care taker I've ever meat. Fatima looking good .with beautiful face and clear skin ,she evn foes not have any bed sore despite she have been bed bound for 8 years. This is how Mariam is good in keeping her Mom at her best.
TODAY WHEN i come to see Fatima i found Mariam putting her MOTHER arms around her sleeping .
Destiny is funny ,who KNEW what Mariam the girl with down syndrome is capable too, THE ADORABLE helpful , the perfect child. after all Fatima was right to wish for her and to open her capabilities to the world.
