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Saturday, November 14, 2009 Posted by Sam Sall
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inSome time it seems that there is nothing in the world to talk about except the issue of women in Saudi Arabia.....if you turn on TV you will find several channels discussing SAUDI women . ....and it goes on and on throughout the day! ....Saudi women are oppressed / deprived of their rights / why they are not driving cars, and how they must be removed from power domination of males ......Saudi women this ...and Saudi women that.. ...ah... it gives me headache just talking about it . Not only that but every newspaper is invested with that negative and judgmental nonsense rubbish...I'm afraid to open my fridge and find some little leprechaun talking about Saudi women :D ...
Enough is enough,leave us alone.YOU DO NOT UNDERSTAND US WELL, you should know that by this way you are just pushing us to close our eyes ,heart and ears from you. it is humiliating. why the media is speaking about Saudi women, as if authorized by us ,this will never work, who give you the right to do so.. .WE ARE NOT WEAK ,WE ARE the FOUNDATION and the pride of our society we MADE THE KINGDOM OF SAUDI ARABIA with our fellow men AND YET MEN WORK FOR US DRIVING US AROUND, GIVING US THEIR MONEY AND MANY ARE WORKING HAPPILY UNDER WOMEN LEADERSHIP..There are many great examples of SAUDI WOMEN THAT THE MEDIA IS NOT INTRESTED IN AND IF SOME OF THEM DO SHOW UP IN THE MEDIA THEY WOULD BE PRESENTED AS THE THE FEW PEOPLE WHO ODDLY SURVIVED..We have up to 60 % of the universities graduate are women .There are many Saudi female are wonderfull mothers ,wives, doctors, teachers ,Chief Executive of big time company . It is really DEPEND ON EACH ONE OF US which is the same everywhere if you work and waked the line you will eventually be there .Our government is always proud to have highly successful and highly intellectual women they provide them with prizes and royal praises ...
We really do not need any one to defend us.
Our Lord has given us full and complete rights ,he is Creator of the world and knows what is good and what is harmful .Saudi women has the same right as men to choose a spouse freely, no one can push her to enter into a marriage only with her free full consent . Also if she want her way out of the marriage, she has the same rights to get the divorce...and divorce law is complicated everywhere but here is clear and fixed
Many talk about how men in Saudi Arabia are controlling and how they keep women as prisoners ,that is not true. Stewardship in SAUDI ARABIA ARE DIFFERENT ,it is taken from Quran and totally not based on The tyranny and injustice: it meant to serve and to provide loving protective atmoshere to the family and he must never touch or use her properties unless she gives him willingly...but she is entitled to his money and can sue him to pay her if she wanted more..THAT WHY in the inheritance law she will be given as half as her brother because the man is always the responsible for paying her an alimony and all her expenses, while women do not have to bother to share in any responsibilities, and money, which mean her inheritance is entirely hers, no one have the right to take any thing.Also it is important to mention that this rule of half of inheritance based on the meaning: (for the male, a portion of two females) is not a really constant , because there are cases where male and female, take equal shares for example the share of the father,and the share of the mother to share in the legacy of their son.
OF COURSE we have bad people who abuse their women butthere are much more good people . We have hard headed old fashioned arroganr judges but those are an extincting species. It is not the right of the man to do harm to his wife or he will be punished by law...and when women say that a guy harassed her by any way , she will have the upper hand and will be considered true till proven it other wise and it will be taken seriously ...
I practice medicine and i worked in the ER AND MEDICAL FLOORS of Mecca,TAIF, JEDDA, BURAIDAH ,TABUK AND RIYADH ...AND WHEREVER I GET HAD A SUSPECTED CASE OF SPOUSAL ABUSE WE REPORT IT AND THE HUSBAND ALWAYS END UP DRAGGED AWAY BY THE POLICE ALTHOUGH WOMEN TEND TO BE PROTECTIVE OF THEIR ABUSERS BUT AFTER WE TALK TO HERE SINCERELY BY THE SPECIALIZED TEAM THEY USUALLY SPEAK UP.I also took MY ER rotation in back in 2007 in a big general hospital in London supposedly for 3b month but i could not stand for more that 2 weeks , their was different kind of tutored women. At one time I was assigned to a 6 years old girl who is a rape victim ,she was repeated abused by her step father,then the night got wild we received this senior patient ,81 years old in COMA ,she is known to have Alzheimer disease any way my nurse came telling me she noticed something with that lady during the insertion of the Foley catheter ,so i came to examine the patient and yes she was raped and by who!!!! by her 40 year old son!!!!... I really felt sick in the stomach and when i thought it can not get worse, I received a 14 years old girl with postpartum sepsis after an incomplete abortion ...SHE WAS SO ill , LONELY AND AFRAID OF HER MOTHER ... every night we almost like this . .I could not take it so I just cut down my rotation and went back to my home land . Don't understand me wrong we receive cases of rape and women abuse in my practice in Saudi Arabia but in much less numbers and diffidently not daily and numbers and even then not like that.
Actually it is great to be a Saudi Arabian, we have no taxes no matter howe big your salary or business are , you get paid for going to collage and you get full access to free medical and educational service. As Saudi women we have much healthier environment we are very respected for example we advance in our career not afraid of being push behind by the way we look but basically by how professional and good we are..our hejab more comfortable and clear mind . OUR SALARY IS EXACTLY THE SAME AS OUR MALE COLLEAGUES WHO WORK IN THE SAME SECTOR AS US. ALSO THERE IS AT LEAST 2 MONTHS PAID MATERNAL LEAVE.
What is being plotted the media is NOT designed to care about women's happiness ,on the contrary, international conventions are more interested in the issues affecting the world major powers who established those laws which makes women life miserably busy without gaining any better benefits LIKE us.
Saudi women will remain forever the pride of their country. If she seemed silent ,that doesnt mean its true ,and sometimes it means that she is content . IT MAY BE DIFFICULT FOR A WESTERNER MENTALITY TO UNDERSTAND BUT THE MAJORITY LIVING in a happy ,safe and secure environment.
Lastly,Saudi women are not a Pawn in your game so be aware....
Enough is enough,leave us alone.YOU DO NOT UNDERSTAND US WELL, you should know that by this way you are just pushing us to close our eyes ,heart and ears from you. it is humiliating. why the media is speaking about Saudi women, as if authorized by us ,this will never work, who give you the right to do so.. .WE ARE NOT WEAK ,WE ARE the FOUNDATION and the pride of our society we MADE THE KINGDOM OF SAUDI ARABIA with our fellow men AND YET MEN WORK FOR US DRIVING US AROUND, GIVING US THEIR MONEY AND MANY ARE WORKING HAPPILY UNDER WOMEN LEADERSHIP..There are many great examples of SAUDI WOMEN THAT THE MEDIA IS NOT INTRESTED IN AND IF SOME OF THEM DO SHOW UP IN THE MEDIA THEY WOULD BE PRESENTED AS THE THE FEW PEOPLE WHO ODDLY SURVIVED..We have up to 60 % of the universities graduate are women .There are many Saudi female are wonderfull mothers ,wives, doctors, teachers ,Chief Executive of big time company . It is really DEPEND ON EACH ONE OF US which is the same everywhere if you work and waked the line you will eventually be there .Our government is always proud to have highly successful and highly intellectual women they provide them with prizes and royal praises ...
We really do not need any one to defend us.
Our Lord has given us full and complete rights ,he is Creator of the world and knows what is good and what is harmful .Saudi women has the same right as men to choose a spouse freely, no one can push her to enter into a marriage only with her free full consent . Also if she want her way out of the marriage, she has the same rights to get the divorce...and divorce law is complicated everywhere but here is clear and fixed
Many talk about how men in Saudi Arabia are controlling and how they keep women as prisoners ,that is not true. Stewardship in SAUDI ARABIA ARE DIFFERENT ,it is taken from Quran and totally not based on The tyranny and injustice: it meant to serve and to provide loving protective atmoshere to the family and he must never touch or use her properties unless she gives him willingly...but she is entitled to his money and can sue him to pay her if she wanted more..THAT WHY in the inheritance law she will be given as half as her brother because the man is always the responsible for paying her an alimony and all her expenses, while women do not have to bother to share in any responsibilities, and money, which mean her inheritance is entirely hers, no one have the right to take any thing.Also it is important to mention that this rule of half of inheritance based on the meaning: (for the male, a portion of two females) is not a really constant , because there are cases where male and female, take equal shares for example the share of the father,and the share of the mother to share in the legacy of their son.
OF COURSE we have bad people who abuse their women butthere are much more good people . We have hard headed old fashioned arroganr judges but those are an extincting species. It is not the right of the man to do harm to his wife or he will be punished by law...and when women say that a guy harassed her by any way , she will have the upper hand and will be considered true till proven it other wise and it will be taken seriously ...
I practice medicine and i worked in the ER AND MEDICAL FLOORS of Mecca,TAIF, JEDDA, BURAIDAH ,TABUK AND RIYADH ...AND WHEREVER I GET HAD A SUSPECTED CASE OF SPOUSAL ABUSE WE REPORT IT AND THE HUSBAND ALWAYS END UP DRAGGED AWAY BY THE POLICE ALTHOUGH WOMEN TEND TO BE PROTECTIVE OF THEIR ABUSERS BUT AFTER WE TALK TO HERE SINCERELY BY THE SPECIALIZED TEAM THEY USUALLY SPEAK UP.I also took MY ER rotation in back in 2007 in a big general hospital in London supposedly for 3b month but i could not stand for more that 2 weeks , their was different kind of tutored women. At one time I was assigned to a 6 years old girl who is a rape victim ,she was repeated abused by her step father,then the night got wild we received this senior patient ,81 years old in COMA ,she is known to have Alzheimer disease any way my nurse came telling me she noticed something with that lady during the insertion of the Foley catheter ,so i came to examine the patient and yes she was raped and by who!!!! by her 40 year old son!!!!... I really felt sick in the stomach and when i thought it can not get worse, I received a 14 years old girl with postpartum sepsis after an incomplete abortion ...SHE WAS SO ill , LONELY AND AFRAID OF HER MOTHER ... every night we almost like this . .I could not take it so I just cut down my rotation and went back to my home land . Don't understand me wrong we receive cases of rape and women abuse in my practice in Saudi Arabia but in much less numbers and diffidently not daily and numbers and even then not like that.
Actually it is great to be a Saudi Arabian, we have no taxes no matter howe big your salary or business are , you get paid for going to collage and you get full access to free medical and educational service. As Saudi women we have much healthier environment we are very respected for example we advance in our career not afraid of being push behind by the way we look but basically by how professional and good we are..our hejab more comfortable and clear mind . OUR SALARY IS EXACTLY THE SAME AS OUR MALE COLLEAGUES WHO WORK IN THE SAME SECTOR AS US. ALSO THERE IS AT LEAST 2 MONTHS PAID MATERNAL LEAVE.
What is being plotted the media is NOT designed to care about women's happiness ,on the contrary, international conventions are more interested in the issues affecting the world major powers who established those laws which makes women life miserably busy without gaining any better benefits LIKE us.
Saudi women will remain forever the pride of their country. If she seemed silent ,that doesnt mean its true ,and sometimes it means that she is content . IT MAY BE DIFFICULT FOR A WESTERNER MENTALITY TO UNDERSTAND BUT THE MAJORITY LIVING in a happy ,safe and secure environment.
Lastly,Saudi women are not a Pawn in your game so be aware....
